We all are so different, so unique since the very first moments of our lives. We gather knowledge, go through different situations good or bad, develop with each new experience... And then comes a day when someone tells us or we come to one idea ourselves that there are some missing pieces without each we are not complete. We start to search for some mysterious thing or feeling to fill the emptiness that so fast appeared and grew enough to remind about its existence whenever we are left alone with own self. We can try to find someone who will be fitting enough to just be with us but with time we see that the person cannot 'fix us' entirely. We can go for extremes to forget but whenever the life will be more usual the need for these 'missing pieces' that could make us feel content will come back again...
The thing is that we are and always were complex and content! The only thing is that we live in a world where it is not welcomed because it is not profitable. If we are content and confident we don't really need to buy new clothes or technical equipment whenever there is something updated - we go for it when we need it or it will make our life easier or more entertaining. We are not searching for someone to fix us - we are masters of our life which we can develop in the way we like. We would rather want someone who would be able to walk through life with us as even. We are not seeking empty conversations and fake values because we praise our time and we have people to spend it with or hobbies/likings to invest it in.
We live in a world where many broken personalities try to bully those who try to do something to change their life, to become a better version of own self. The most awful that some people really try to change something but they might have some mental troubles because of lack of confidence. Still, they can try to move forward hoping that something will work, having some plans and ideas for how good it can be if they will succeed. These people don't really need fake support nor they need oppressive and mean comments from those who only watch and expect them to fail - they need a chance. They need some tiny possibility to be themselves, to try to be better and develop. The most important is that in most cases they will achieve what they want if people around are not dragging them down, don't push to the wall with a poison of malicious mockeries that people start to think that there is something wrong with them - that there are some missing pieces in their personalities without which they can be rather social outcasts...
I helped a lot of people to go over it... Perhaps I just happened that since I was small I wanted to punish the guild - in this case, the best 'punishment' for the demons of past was to ensure that the future will be way better than it was assumed, good enough to keep all rediculous deterrent obstacles and fears at bay...
For those who read it - I want you to know that you are beautiful and much stronger than you think you are!
If you suffered from someone who was putting you down - all passes and it will get better as soon as to will try to make a change. Litlle by little, or in fast tempo life will become much more vivid and enjoyable! You just need to believe in yourself and dare to live, to dream and to take your own decisions to see the results that YOU want.
For those who tend to bully - it is never too late to stop for a moment and to see what effect such teasing has on people around you. Afterall while concentrating on hurting others you simply can't work on your own life what can result in stagnation, lost time and possibilities and... Emptiness, when you might notice that all those 'missing pieces' you tried to project on others, appeared right there - in your life. It could take a lot to fix it later...
We have here and now - today is the only time when we can act to change something. Yesterday gave us experience - there is nothing to hold on to or debate over because it is already a history. Tomorow is not here yet - to affect it and to live there in the way we want we need to start today, to live and love now, to create, to dare to be free and try to be happy with what we have now to appreciate all that we will make to happen in the nearest future. ..
Just be yourself, love yourself - evolve!
Good luck on your path